Why Are We So Hard On Ourselves?

Here’s why and what we can do about it.

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When I see photos of women around my size in advertisements, on TV, taking a walk, in a shop…I barely notice.

If anything, I think “That’s a nice shirt.” And move on.

Yet when I look in the mirror, I hate the way I look.

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Entrepreneur, writer, editor, book coach, cat lover, weirdo, optimist. Author of “Write. Get Paid. Repeat.” & “Concept to Conclusion.” jyssicaschwartz.com

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Jyssica Schwartz

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Entrepreneur, writer, editor, book coach, cat lover, weirdo, optimist. Author of “Write. Get Paid. Repeat.” & “Concept to Conclusion.” jyssicaschwartz.com

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